Conscious Energy.ca: Advice About Providing Advice

Advice About Providing Advice

Simply put, don't do it unless somebody asks. Advice: Avoid providing unsolicited advice. I say so within this forum because you and many others have asked for advice by way of using this media. You are here of your own volition and therefore, you are very probably open to receiving advice because you have sought it out. The choice is yours. You can accept, deny, leave the website or learn an important life skill that will immediately calm most waters of upheaval in your life. Advice: Don't get caught in the advice-giving trap.

I learned about avoiding passing along unsolicited advice no matter how honourable your intentions might be, from a valuable work produced by author Nancy Wells in 2006. I have an original transcript that was mailed to me before her (now out-of-print) book was published. If you can find it on e-bay or Amazon I strongly recommend securing a copy for yourself.

About the idea of providing advice, Ms. Wells writes; ...don't assume the other person wants to hear what you have to say. People appreciate being asked if they want to hear your thoughts. It shows you are being respectful of their time and energy. Rather than offering unsolicited advice or ideas, ask; "Are you interested in hearing my thoughts around this?"

You will receive a very simple 'yes' or 'no' and know exactly where you stand in the discussion. If they answer 'Yes', you know they have truly made a space within themselves to listen to what you have to say. If their answer is 'No', they are not ready on one or more levels to hear what you have to say. This scenario is an indicator that you have some spiritual work to do should you wish to enlighten or assist, or allow for a positive-charged, benevolent relationship.

Can you imagine how productive your next family or management meeting would be if everyone in attendance adhered to this one simple premise? Instead of assuming that everyone wants to hear what you have to say, make room for your thoughts by asking whether or not people are open to receiving what you have to offer.

Advice is a valuable form of verbal or written communication. Just be sure your audience is open to receiving it. Just ask first. It will clear the way for more effective communication.
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I study and work with metaphysics that include various energy modalities and the way we express energy consciously through physical, emotional and spiritual interactions. I believe there is only one mind and that it phases vibrationally within all sentient beings in the Universe. I believe that all points of space and time are therefore connected.
I believe that as a species, humans have become disconnected from a natural, harmonious evolutionary state. Our collective consciousness has fallen prey to numerous forms of systemically imposed perceptual diseases resulting in our collective inability to know truth and therefore, reality.
I perceive that an unnatural socioeconomic energy promulgated by various 'imposers' has gained power over the Earth. The resulting collective subconscious state of misperception reflects an ethereal war taking place within the human experience as some seek to rediscover a sustainable path based upon love, while others seek to profit by pointless acquisition of material wealth and power at any cost and without end.
The term 'Conscious Energy' describes a force that can be conscious of itself and also conscious of that which contains its energy. This reality can and indeed has been scientifically measured and understood. I assert that at the core of all human function is the manifestation of this ethereal cosmic life energy that can reach beyond space and time, travel at the speed of thought, (far beyond our understanding of light-speed) and connect with countless other consciousnesses and beings from throughout the Universe.
These functions include thought forms and the physical realm of sensation in all of its forms. In addition, higher functions of the human organism such as heightened sensory perception and multi-dimensional interaction are manifestations of this tangible 'Conscious Energy'.
Starting with this premise, the information contained within this site is based on the principle that all healing is a direct result of the free flow and expansion of a conscious life energy and is a necessary prerequisite for all human evolution, including the attainment of spiritual and all other benevolent goals including becoming associated with, and interacting with other minds existing in other worlds and dimensions.
The deepest healing occurs when a harmonious balance of human function is rediscovered, restored and nurtured. For this reason, this work intends to explore the intellectual, emotional and physical centres of 'being', in concert with the current zeitgeist – the spirit of our time – on Earth which is needlessly being corrupted by energy forces that can be confronted and altered. First, by a few, and then by many through the application of peaceful, collective conscious energy. A tipping point to a collective consciousness with all life in the Universe is possible with a communion of less than one hundred million of Earth's inhabitants.
My efforts have been informed first and foremost by biocentrism, quantum physics, metaphysics, and meditation as the conduit to Universal peace and harmony. and the physical world, including consumption, environment and basic human requirements for meaningful life; touch, belonging, love, empathy, nourishment and the writings and ideas of scholars, sages, mystics and other higher thinkers including Peter Joseph, Kristnamurti, Coleman Barkes, Lama Surya Das, Stuart Wilde, The Dali Lama, Jalal Muhammad Rumi, The Buddha, and many others, some not of this world. I also enjoy the counsel of an inter-demential light being called Manfred with whom I meet regularly.