Most people are walking the earth plain in a perpetual state of blurriness. It's as if someone has rubbed petroleum jelly on their eyeballs and sent them on their way to make their way through the labyrinth of this existence called life. Not being able to see where they are going, many simply exhaust themselves by running into dead end after dead end.
When you are unclear about something, and the event is disrupting how you feel, (disrupting your energy flow) you need to be clear about what is really going on. The best way to get clear is simply to ask enough questions about the circumstances that are causing the disruption so that you can understand the situation - whatever it is, and for what it is, and get on with your life.
The natural windfall of this choice is that you end up teaching those around you how you wish to be treated. Try it the next time you feel something is going wrong in your life over which you feel you have little control. Usually once you understand clearly by asking questions to get at the truth, you are no longer upset by the event and you CAN get on with your life without too much unnecessary energy drain. -AN
