Whether you have a space as large as a football field, or as small as a closet, creating your personal sanctuary is prerequisite for finding the inner silence you require before self-actualization becomes a reality. The space you choose must be free from external influences other than those you desire. It must be a reflection of who you are, so be ssure to include the colours, art, objects, lighting and smells that bring you comfort, as you will begin to spend more and more time there reconnecting with yourself.
There have been times in my life where finding a personal sanctuary was very difficult due to travel or new environments. During these moments it is important to understand that a sanctuary does not need to exist on the physical dimension and that there are no boundaries to its size either great or very small. I have had sanctuaries as large as other worlds, indeed as large as multiple universes. And I have had sanctuaries as small as an atom. You are only as far away from your sanctuary as you believe you are, so even when you are abroad, remember; Mind is the best traveller.
If you are fortunate enough to have some physical space somewhere that you can transform into your personal sanctuary it is a positive start to developing a new sense of 'self ' which you must cultivate in order to pursue the virtuous spiritual path of self-discovery.
If you are pressed for space, and cannot find it in the physical world, close your eyes wherever you are, even if just for a moment and envision your sanctuary. Invent the space within your mind, great or small, indoors or out, on any dimensional field or world you wish. Whatever feels right to you is your sanctuary and your starting point to a better, more fulfilling existence.
As you practice spending time within your peaceful sanctuary you will find yourself drawn to it more and more. Don't be confused by this. Spending time alone is not anti-social, in fact it will contribute tremendously toward your ability to be social and to share your experiences and inner self with others. As you think, so shall you be. Take the time to think, reflect, plan, meditate and be creative. The best place to start is your personal sanctuary.
